Monday, July 23, 2007

Blind...

It is unfortunate that some of us out there in the world are physically blind. It is worse when those blind ones are those who are physically abled.

People chose to see things from their points of views. People chose to say that they were open-minded but they have their own perspective of open-mindedness. People chose to say that they were open-minded but they just needed to be right about themselves.

It also results in people not able to see the happy stuff around them as they were too caught up in their visions. They end up being sad and miserable and lacking emotional security. They end up cursing the days and the environment they work or study or (...etc) in.

Quote: Don't pity those physically abled, for the pitiful are not them.

Monday, July 9, 2007

Overpopulation...

One instance of an example of overpopulation... My p4 kids have a conflict today. As usual, they need a mediator and a facilitator. However, before I could even speak, one party has chosen, "There's not a need to solve the problem. I just don't need to friend him."

OK... So what was I going to say? Go ahead since there are plenty of friends for you to choose? Or you have to work things out with that other party regardless? Well, before I could conclude, the kid had already gone ahead with his decision to 'not friend' that other kid.

Overpopulation - luxury of choosing. Choose your friend, choose your girl friend, choose your boy friend, choose your husband/wife, choose your 2nd husband/wife... I have one instance when someone suggested choosing the parents/family...

I am glad I am stuck with some friends, regardless of choice.

Sunday, July 8, 2007

Diverse communication

Definition of a hypocrite: a person who professes beliefs and opinions that he or she does not hold in order to conceal his or her real feelings or motives

All of us are to some extent when our words contradict our opinions which we voice out. Sometimes it is done unwittingly, sometimes it is done inevitably, sometimes it is done intentionally.

Sometimes it also happens because of the lack of proper communication which facilitates full understanding of the situation. Sometimes communication is not there because it is assumed that the recipient is not open to listening. Sometimes communication is not there because various recipients receive different communicated information.

Yet who is to judge but the person himself or herself?

Quote of the day: Unhappiness is when you have done something disrespectful to yourself.